7 Solid Signs Your Lover Is About To Start Causing Drama

Happy Friday! Earlier this week, the hip hop world witnessed a supreme example of messy people. I won’t go into who, why or how they were messy, but its not that hard to find out. With that said, are there signs that the person you’re with might be messy?
We all know the type of messy people who go on twitter, tell all of your business or leak naked pictures of you because y’all broke up. I had an ex, who sent me a random sexy video of her playing with herself. Turns out her ex-boyfriend got jealous hacked into her account and sent the video she sent him to everyone in her address book. Just messy!
I’ve been with messy women, I’ve even crossed paths with messy dudes who felt the need to tell me all about the girl I stole from him. Newsflash to all messy people, you’d keep more lovers. Duh, Winning. So how do you pick up on a messy lover before they get messy? Here are a couple of tips.

• Missed Call Log: If you look at your missed calls and the person you’re in a relationship with called you more than 5 times in 45 minutes. Something is wrong. Leave a message and wait for a call back.
• Computer Jocking: If you’re on the internet and the person you’re with is always looking over your shoulder trying to find out what you’re doing, they might be messy.
• Phone Check Homie!: If the person you’re with is always trying to check your phone, chances are if they find any dirt on you, or have any dirt on you they are going to use twitter to ruin you. Being the FBI of cell phones is not love it’s insanity.
• Telling Your Business: If your lover is quick to put you on blast in a joking way, then should be cautious to the things they might say or do if you break up. Beware.
• Tweets Is Watching: Have you ever been tweeting someone, and when all of a sudden your significant other innocently jumps in. Sure twitter is public, but if two people have no business talking to one another, why are they talking? Why do they want to be friends? Maybe it’s just me but that’s a messy flag in my book.
• What They Do: If you’re concerned about your lover being messy, pay attention to the things they do. Do they get too much of a kick out of people getting put on blast? Do they enjoy the mayhem of messy people a bit too much? If so they may be on the path to being messy. If they stay on MTO and Bossip messy flag! Hash tag just saying.
• Idle Threats: If your boo has hit you with a couple of idle threats in this week, they might be messy. Stuff like “if you come in late i’ll cut you, haha” or “keep playing with me and watch what I do (devilish grin) If they say things like that or similar things then they have it in them, have thought about and are capable of doing something with the attempt to embarrass you in public.

This isn’t to say we all don’t get messy from time to time, all I am trying to say is beware of the signs. Have you ever dealt with a messy person? Have you ever been messy? Do you know someone who is messy? Look it’s no need to be messy, why do you want to air all of your dirty laundry and spend the day conversing about your private life with the circus of twitter, facebook or just people you don’t know? Its dumb and childish. Let’s converse.